Affect, Affectation and Affection

The man with no affect regards us like a cat, stone-faced, carved of a substance unlike our own.   We wonder, as the features do not change, what is going on inside this head with its sphinx face.

Affectation is putting on airs, pretending to be something more than you are.  It is an affectation to pretend you’re unconcerned with things that deeply concern you, tragic kind of idiocy, too.   Most affectation, it would seem, comes from want of affection.  “They will love me if I seem better than I am,” reasons the affected person as they effect affectation.

Affection is what every creature instinctively seeks.  When we find it we feel loved, less alone, connected, at home in something greater than ourselves.  This is something you can explain to the man without affect, but you will never be sure he got it.

What I sent her instead

Well, you know what they say about statistics, particularly when spun by partisans like this NRA speaker.  If you throw in every third world sink-hole, countries in poverty with violent gangs, repressive governments, a lot of guns and low value on human life, yes, the US looks relatively OK.

 
Compared to other wealthy nations, not so good, as a glance at the attached chart compiled by the UN will show you.
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American mass-killing gunman doesn’t even get Bronze

There are plenty of proofs that America has no real problem with gun violence compared to the rest of the world.   Here’s one:

The Top 5 Worst Gun Massacres by an Individual

Perpetrator Location Date Victims
1
Anders Behring Breivik
(aged 32, captured)
Utøya Island, Norway 22 Jul 2011 77 killed,
(151 wounded)
2
Woo Bum-Kon
(aged 27, suicide at scene)
Sang-Namdo, South Korea 26 Apr 1982 57 killed,
(35 wounded)
3
Martin Bryant
(aged 29, captured)
Port Arthur, Australia 28 Apr 1996 35 killed,
(21 wounded)
4
Seung-Hui Cho
(aged 23, suicide at scene)
Blacksburg, Virginia USA 16 Apr 2007 32 killed,
(25 wounded)
5
Campo Elí­as Delgado
(aged 52, killed at scene)
Bogota, Colombia 4 Dec 1986 30 killed,
(15 wounded

When she sent me another proof, a speech delivered the other day at an NRA convention in Texas, I wrote:

Thanks, but I thought we agreed not to argue about politics. 
And if you’re going to raise politics, can there be any good reason to send me a purely partisan email?   This speech was delivered by a true-believer to a partisan NRA crowd in Texas in defense of “our way of life”  (different than those weird “other” Progressive Elites in NYC and Hollywood).  Even before I read it I was backing away from this particular speaker.   His arguments notwithstanding, I remain  unconvinced that guns are as harmless as butter, even if  they are as American as apple pie.
Why do ABC and other corporate media (and virtually any other non-NRA source) state numbers about America leading the wealthy world in gun violence by a clear margin?   Do you think they might be fronts for people who want to take our American gun rights from us– people who hate our freedom?   
 
There are two sides to every argument and the truth is often a shade of grey neither side will agree to.   So, as the NRA speech says, if you subtract the 65% of American gun deaths that are suicides (and these 95% successful suicides were not even counted as gun deaths until very recently) and then subtract all the “urban” gun killings– you know, as you sent me recently, black inner-city gangsters killing each other at rates dis- proportionate to their numbers, liberal perverts killing each other — then America is actually the most peaceful country in the world.   I agree 100%.
That only 500 or so were slaughtered in free-lance American gun massacres in 30 years would seem to clinch it.  A gun is no more dangerous than a bar of soap.   Certainly less dangerous, statistically, than lightning (according to the speech anyway, I didn’t check it) or a lawyer’s crooked mouth.
In retrospect I’m sorry I opined that it’s criminal that a small well-funded group of gun rights activists can override the will of  90% of the population.   But you know, I guess if that small group of gun lovers ever got really mad, it would be worse for everyone.  So I agree 100%– no laws against any type of firearm!   Freedom for all, that’s my motto.
I went too far with the P.S. that follows, but I read a bit more of this decent, compassionate, non-racist, Christian NRA fellow’s flowing speech and eventually I’d swallowed enough of his gas.   I’ll delete the PS when I write back to her, if ever, on this subject.
gun homicide chart
 
P.S.  
And I wish educated speechwriters like this guy speaking to his NRA friends in Texas would stop reminding people that the KKK is a Democratic party apparatus (ignore the eerie irony that this party is now silent in the former Confederacy, now solidly Red, since traitorous double-talking Democrats passed the Civil Rights legislation of the late 60s) and that Liberals and Progressives hate blacks and freedom so much.  Most inconvenient truths!!!

 I think we can all agree, as the speechifying NRA member says:

 We will work together side by side, white, black, Hispanic or native-American.  It doesn’t matter because we don’t see those divisions.   WE will work together as Americans not only to preserve our rights, but the rights of our children to be safe, our wives and daughters to not be held at knife or gunpoint by a rapist and our most precious and vulnerable little ones to have the right to survive a simple walk down a city street or, God forbid, survive a day of public education.

WTF — is this really the America that God Blessed?

The detainees [at Guantanamo] who are refusing food have been stripped of all possessions, including a sleeping mat and soap, and are made to sleep on concrete floors in freezing solitary cells. “It is possible that I may die in here,” said Shaker Aamer through his lawyer, Clive Stafford Smith. “I hope not, but if I do die, please tell my children that I loved them above all else, but that I had to stand up for the principle that they cannot just keep holding people without a trial, especially when they have been cleared for release.” Aamer, a British father of four, was approved for release more than five years ago.

Col. Morris Davis, who served as Chief Prosecutor for the Terrorism Trials at Guantanamo, personally charged Osama bin Laden’s driver Salim Hamdan, Australian David Hicks, and Canadian teen Omar Khadr. All three were convicted and have been released from Guantanamo. “There is something fundamentally wrong with a system where not being charged with a war crime keeps you locked away indefinitely and a war crime conviction is your ticket home,” Davis wrote to Obama.

The above was written by a lawyer, and law professor, a former president of the National Lawyers’ Guild, an organization that once defended, and included, American Communists (neither a problem in my book, where, in one chapter, actual Nazis get a pass, a nice salary and generous pension, from the US government because of their staunch anti-Red credentials) so you can take that into account if you like.  But, I mean, WTF?!!  The rest of the piece is here.

Doing Something Impossible

Why impossible?  I ask myself as 11:46 shows on the countdown timer.  Once the impossible thing is done it is shown to be clearly possible.  There are a million examples, like enormous, heavy hunks of metal flying through the air filled with people and luggage.  A video phone in your pocket.

Technology is what comes to mind first, but the impossible things I’m thinking about are massive changes inside individual hearts, inside our collective heart.   We are raised inculcated with certain truths, facts about us and the world that seem immutable.  I argued with my father for decades over whether people can fundamentally change themselves.  I believe we can, and don’t discount how difficult and sometimes painful it is.   My father always argued that we can change only the superficial parts, our outward reactions perhaps.   To him, the impossibility of healing deep wounds was a psychological fact.  At the very end, with his last breaths, he regretted that he’d fought me all those years instead of doing the hard work to have a more joyful, generous, loving life.

I set out to do something impossible, set up a network of children’s animation workshops.  To inspire children to show adults what children can do– to inspire change in the way things are done in schools, in our ass-backwards educational system.  I take my inspiration in this from people like Sugata Mitra, Ken Robinson, Seth Godin, Vandana Shiva, people I’d never even heard about six months ago.   I take courage from discovering new things that continue to help me as I go.

Is what I’m trying to do impossible?  I can’t concede that, though the odds against me are pretty impressive.  Is it impossible for one person to do alone?  Yes, that is clearly impossible.  So to gather a small group to help me push the project ahead I have to not only be inspired, I have to inspire them.  I cannot complain, I can’t hesitate, must be calm and confident at all times.  Hard!  As annoying as it may be when a kid screeches into a microphone with headphones on, thrilled to be hearing the echo in his voice, I have to show no annoyance, realize the bigger picture is about letting children feel these thrills.   Easier with children, to keep this philosophical stance.  It is the adults.  Man, the adults are the hard part.

Gratitude Check

Time to be grateful again.  Easy to forget that, when health is good, the legs are strong, the will is there, fear doesn’t have its sweaty hand on your chest at the end of a quivering, demonically strong arm.  

But I remember it now, remember to be glad, and grateful, and tick off the list in my head as I tap these keys.   Near the top of the list I am grateful at how often I remain mild these days, certainly compared to days past.  

Certainly compared to those days, for sure.

Why Give A Crap About the War on Wikileaks?

The U.S. government may be telling the truth– Bradley Manning, who disclosed, among other things, classified video of the U.S. military murdering  unarmed civilians, and two reporters from Reuters, in Baghdad, is a traitor, a frustrated homosexual from a broken family engaged in a prolonged hissy fit; that Julian Assange, founder of Wikileaks, is a deranged enabler of world terrorism, a rapist and dangerous fugitive— but this 2010 TEDtalk is worth watching before you make up your mind– if you are disposed to have any opinion at all about such matters:

http://www.ted.com/talks/julian_assange_why_the_world_needs_wikileaks.html

Asked to state his core values, Assange says “capable, generous men do not create victims, they nurture victims.”  

These days he lives under 24 hour surveillance in the Ecuadorean embassy in London, where he was given political sanctuary.

Keeping it Darkside (with footnote!)

The scariest things about a war against people who hate our freedom is that it never ends, it justifies the most terrible things imaginable and is self-sustaining.   With the technology now in place, a wartime president, and they all are now, forever, is able to spy on, locate and kill by remote control anyone he or she deems worthy of death.

If Louis Farrakahn had this technology in 1965 he wouldn’t have had to foment murderous hatred by preaching “a hypocrite such as Malcolm X is worthy of death!”   Malcolm’s on the phone, he’s getting into his car, boom!  Done.

In 1917, when the U.S. was engaged in a war nobody to this day can give a moral reason for (American banks had loaned millions to France and England, jingoism had run amok, colonialists were vying for control of Africa and Asia), it was literally packaged and sold by the US President as The War to End War and a crusade to Make the World Safe for Democracy.   It did neither, as the next century was to grotesquely illustrate in the blood and nightmares of countless hundreds of millions.

Woodrow Wilson was the president who hired a PR genius , George Creel, and created a government office called The Committee for Public Information, to make Americans enthusiastically join up for this senseless slaughter.  Wilson’s remembered well by many as the peace-loving idealist who formed the League of Nations which became the UN.  Others remember him as the KKK sympathizer who screened the infamous “Birth of a Nation”, the first moving picture ever shown in the White House.  

This movie portrayed a noble South besieged by lawless Blacks, enraged, apparently, over their former condition of servitude.   The Federal government laughed, as the piano player accompanied the silent black and white film, as southern ladies were defiled.  Finally hooded heroes emerged to defend the honor of their women and restore decency to the South.  These heroes were members of the KKK.  There are people who insist that Wilson was a klansman himself.  It wouldn’t surprise me, in light of the facts and the profile of the psychopathic type who is usually elected president of the USA.

Don’t get me wrong, I use psychopathic in the most respectful way.  These men are not  serial killers, they are charming, confident, mostly brilliant winners of vast popularity contests.  I just recall the things many have done to prove they are ready for office, like publicly executing brain damaged prisoners to prove their toughness (Clinton, Dubya).   The things they sign off on as president sometimes involve killings and these men must not flinch, even when they may personally think the killing in question is probably wrong.   There are trillions of dollars at stake if they don’t play ball with the people who have the most to lose.  In most cases it is thought best to keep these high-stakes matters private.

The only hope for working representative democracy is transparency, information, a robust exchange of actual ideas based on the actual facts of each given case.  When Cheney  restored the power of the Unitary Executive and famously moved our democracy to the Dark Side to fight people as evil and devious as he himself is, his first move was to stamp every government action secret and confidential.  Make the bastards go to court to prove it isn’t, you know?

Secrecy is essential for a government working in the shadows.  For example, if you have a top secret memo, written by lawyers– one soon to be a Federal Judge with a lifetime appointment– that redefines torture to allow unspeakable things to be done during interrogations, your operatives are free to do whatever is necessary to extract information.  If some asshole publishes photos of some of these horrors, and some bleeding heart like the NY Times publishes them, a whole unnecessary shit storm, a gigantic kerfuffle, (as when Cheney innocently shot  his acquaintance in the face while drunk), flares up.   It makes everyone look bad in the name of  protecting a few hundred or thousand people who might very well hate our freedom.  Can you prove these were innocent people we humiliated, tormented and broke, NY Times?

If you publish photos of Auschwitz for chickens, or pigs, or cows, there are statutes that will punish you.   If you show the parade of American coffins coming back from various foreign wars– watch out.   The toxic mix of chemicals forced deep into the earth at great force to extract clean, safe natural gas?   Top secret, there’s a federal statute that says so.   There are certain practices that do not lend themselves to the disinfectant of  sunlight.

Strict deterrents, a determined ruler finds, are very useful in gaining compliance– particularly where delicate government secrets are involved.   At a critical juncture where a disastrously costly war in Iraq might have been prevented, a man with direct knowledge of the false evidence petitioned the government to reveal that the aluminum tubes from Niger had nothing to do with Saddam’s supposed nuclear program.  The government told him to shut up.  Instead he published an Op-Ed in the NY Times, the Grey Skank, America’s journal of record.  Some might call him a patriot for this action.

Others were not impressed with his patriotism.  In short order his wife’s status as a CIA officer was publicly revealed.   That she was working to prevent WMD from falling into the hands of terrorists was secondary to the need to chill the sort of bravado her husband had shown at this crucial juncture.  He could easily have ruined everything!  

Revealing the wife’s secret agent status led, no doubt, to the mass round-up and execution of all of her informants, the shutting down of her network.   As I recall America was already at war in Afghanistan.  If so, this treasonous act during a time of war should have been a capital offense.  Instead it was one more thing for Americans to just “get over” as the administration plunged ahead with its plan to, inadvertently, make Iran the most powerful player in the region.  Lawyers made the rest of this treasonous conspiracy quietly disappear as one fall guy was convicted of obstructing justice and then had his prison sentence commuted.

Anyway, my point is this:  In 1917, Woodrow Wilson decided that there were too many unpatriotic Americans, unionists, communists, socialists, pacifists, who were intent on preventing America’s entry to the War to End War.   Congress passed the 1917 Espionage Act which allowed these groups to be spied on, prosecuted in federal court and locked up for a long time for aiding the enemy during war (Wikipedia would be handy to check now, but I’ve got to end this tirade soon).

Fast forward almost a century.   President Barack Obama’s government has used the 1917 Espionage Act, a law passed to make prosecution of a senseless war (except for the war profiteers who made billions) easier, to prosecute more cases (6) than all American presidents before him combined (3).   Details from the Grey Skank herself here.

Another moment of true horror, hearing that President Transparency has been more zealous than his even his famously secretive predecessors in keeping unseemly government actions opaque.   Punish the whistle blower harshly and consistently enough and you eventually can stop worrying about the public getting a whiff of the unspeakable things governments do in our name.

Democracy is best left to the experts, it would appear by the evidence.

FN (From NY Times article linked above):

In one of the more remarkable examples of the administration’s aggressive approach, Thomas A. Drake, a former employee of the National Security Agency, was prosecuted under the Espionage Act last year and faced a possible 35 years in prison.

His crime? When his agency was about to spend hundreds of millions of dollars on a software program bought from the private sector intended to monitor digital data, he spoke with a reporter at The Baltimore Sun. He suggested an internally developed program that cost significantly less would be more effective and not violate privacy in the way the product from the vendor would. (He turned out to be right, by the way.)

He was charged with 10 felony counts that accused him of lying to investigators and obstructing justice. Last summer, the case against him collapsed, and he pleaded guilty to a single misdemeanor, of misuse of a government computer.

Making Repeat Requests

It is the way of the world, I know.  If there’s nothing in it for me, you know, WTF?

Still, some people push it.  At lunch two promises:  assistant will mail back book borrowed a year earlier, pass on your contact info to someone very helpful.  Three weeks, emails, a call, another email.  They are busy, and sorry.  So sorry!

Host of a nonprofit event has a release you signed, identical to the one you need for your upcoming event.  Ask for a copy you can tweak for your event and get this reply:   

You can generally find release templates througg Google. Then you or you lawyer can adapt them for relevancy. Hope that helps.

Sure it helps, but not as much as my vow to remain mild.